If she doesn’t care about improving, or learning anything, you’re obviously better off without this therapist. As I need to tell myself... I’m better off without any those “support” workers irl. I know more than they do .. and certainly more than they appeared to know. And I’m not even an arrogant A-hole like some of them are. A therapist who for whatever reason is not open to learning from their clients.. even the “bad object” or shadow in a client.. is not someone I would wish to work with.