I’m fine with most of the things you described - I think every professional service is fake in that way, I play roles as a professional myself and when I introduced and expressed too much personal stuff, it usually dis not work out well. I still like to receive and give honest feedback and appreciate when someone shares relevant useful experiences from their lives, but not excessively. But I really don’t like when people make claims that they have always said the same or something was their original idea when it is clearly not true. Just accept that sometimes we are full of contradictions! That is less fake.