[QUOTE=seeker33;6311465]How do you cope with the fact that your T doesn't always say what they really think? They will fake liking something or supporting you when they actually think something else? Or they will say "oh that sounds fun!" when they don't mean it at all? And it's absolutely obvious because for example you're describing an absolutely boring TV show which you don't watch but you're going to watch one specific episode because your friend is there. Otherwise that show is crap. But your T will exclaim "oh, that sounds fun!!!". Or on other occasions they will change their approach or commentary about something more serious based on what you say.

This is totally true! So much so it actually made me crack up. It's SO true. Either they suck at faking, or they are trying to NOT get too personal and act like they care. I found my experience to be genuine at first, then as more time passed, very fake. I'd get responses like "Oh wow, that's scary", without any emotion or sincerity at all. I remember thinking, "yeah, like you give a rat's ***." Wish I had walked out.

So how do you handle it? I'd leave. My thought is that they've lost their empathy. I wish I had seen through it much faster.