I try to see it through the eyes of someone who knows better than me about what's truly right for me. I try to see it basically through the eyes of a God of sorts... like, this had to happen for your own good, it is truly for the best, you will eventually see. Right now it hurts, and maybe even a LOT, but eventually, you will see that it was for your own good and to bring you to a better place in life. That's what helps me.