between this and your other post that I've read I can't help but ask, maybe you're focusing too much on what you don't want rather than what you want in friends. I know that this is a criticism but one that I am trying to be constructive about.
It's easy to set up a list of things that make you want to end friendships but I find that listing negatives on anything comes easily to most people.
Just a thought but maybe focus on the things you look for in friends and make an effort to look at those things more, you'll find more quality people in your life. I do not say this without self conviction because I know too well how easy it is for me to point out things in the people I don't like while my real true friends, I take for granted and don't spend time thinking about why I get along with them so well but... gosh darn it, I should.
Hope this doesn't come out sounding harsh but sorry if it does.
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