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Originally Posted by Siddiqui97
I'm an attractive 23 year old female. I date frequently and occasionally meet someone that I am interested in. However, for some reason I cannot stay interested. Every relationship goes the same way: I feel attracted and interested, we start dating, after a few weeks I am not only not interested, but I am repulsed by the person. Everything about them bothers me to the point I don't even want to try and talk it out. I want to be able to have a successful relationship, and it's not going to happen if this keeps going on! Can anyone tell me what's wrong?
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I'd honestly slow down and just meet a few people, hang out and don't necessarily jump into a relationship with them until you know that's someone that you want to be with for longer term. What seems to be happening is that quite possibly you're rushing to the dating status based on superficial information - that's not to say you're necessarily superficial so let me explain. in the first few days or even weeks of knowing someone, what you know about them is typically superficial. it's not until you get past that stuff and get to know them deeper that you can and should pursue them as a potential bf/gf, IMO.