Hugs Echos. Those are painful feelings. We wanted something from someone but didn't get it ( and if they are gone we will never get it ) and we SOO want it from others. Those are your feelings coming out in therapy , I guess feeling humiliated and guilty about them is how inner child feels. It's really crap to get them out and look at them too. Such tricky steps to deal with , I've been working on it myself recently , so you have my empathy.