when a woman is not feeling like herself and is unable to do the things she normally does, do not say, "While you were gone i did not eat, I couldn't sleep because you were not here, and I was so worried about you I didn't go to work" but then i find out that the day you didn't go to work you spent with your friend. This hurts.I guess what I am saying is DON'T LIE!!!!!! The truth is much better. If you say, I didn't go to work because i am exhausted so I spent time with my friend so I wouldn't sit all day worrying about how you were doing, this is soooooo much better. COMMUNICATE (I KNOW SOMEONE ALREADY SAID THIS ONE, BUT IT IS SO TRUE)