i just started working at a new place. one of the staff asked me out to lunch. i was so happy she extended a hand of friendship. but i didn't know i was walking into the lion's den... lunch went okay. i took the leftovers in a container and put it in a plastic bag. during the ride back to the office, she suddenly said do you want a grocery bag? i went huh? she said it again a few times. i thanked her but said i had lots of reusable bags already. she then said i was irritating her and that i needed to get my head up and look around once in a while. again i thought huh? she insulted me again and again. i couldn't believe it. then i realized she offered me the bag in case my plastic bag leaked but she wasn't clear about her intentions. i thought she was a nice person but it turned out she is a meanie. i am mad at myself for letting this woman get to me. if it is bugging me that means she wins and that is the last thing i want. and i am sad i don't have a friend i talk to often enough to share this with right away..