I can relate to those

With the exception of anything to do with parental units

So I think I’ve actually “come a long way” - away from that abuse - and that I’m a decent human being who tries and mostly succeeds to be caring, listening, kind, learning, bear lover, huggable, dependable etc - and who survives despite being depressed and anxious .. and somewhat oblivious at times to social cues (and tries not to play mind games which my PUS specialise in)