Thanks, I often like the decompression time, too. H did say that if it was a difficult session and I didn't want to go to dinner, he could just take D. But then I feel bad, especially knowing that the session is mainly about him (which of course he doesn't know--I just said we had a really intense session today without getting into specifics). But maybe I'll talk to him about this stuff soon...because it involves how he relates to me and D...