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There's a person (female)I've known through work for quite a few years now.I got to know her as I used to refer quite alot of work to her and see quite alot of her as a result.She's always been friendly towards me eg a while ago when I had to have some time off work,she rang to see how I was etc.We've never seen one another socially though.(Other than at work related events ).

A while ago,circumstances changed in relation to work so we don't work together as often now. She is a high flyer as far as work's concerned and has (deservedly) done very well indeed.She works very hardand I don't imagine she'll have a great deal of time for friendships outside work.As far as I know,her circumstances are that she's happily married with no children .

Occasionally she'll still phone me and if we ever do bump into one another through work (which happens much less often now),she'll make a point of coming over to say hello and be friendly.

A time or two I've suggested meeting for lunch-she's said yes we must but it's never actaully happened ,knowing how busy she is, I've not liked to mention it again.I saw her the other day and once again,she made a point of coming over to say hello.I said would you have time for a coffee later and she said she might well do,but as things worked out,her meeting went on for alot longer than mine and I couldn't wait due to other work.

I sometimes wonder if this lady could be a friend-I enjoy her company alot and would like to make new friends.Other times I wonder if she's just keeping in touch so that I might refer more work in future should the circumstances arise.

She's quite a forthright person ,known for speaking her mind! Many people feel intimidated by her in a work situation but she's always been lovely to me.

What do I do? Do people think there could be a potential friendship here and if so,how do I take things forward?