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Old Oct 26, 2018, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by whispershadow View Post
I made friends with someone who expected me to be available 24/7 (this was years ago), I dropped him after he called me a nasty name and verbally attacked me *just* because I was unavailable for a few hours due to something else that was going on that was serious

I tried to be there for him as much as I could but he wouldn't seek other help for himself, he expected me to drop everything and be there for him 24/7 if he needed someone and he wouldn;t even entertain the idea of other people trying to help him like if I was unavailable like I was that one time cause I had something really serious going on and could not drop everything and be there for him at that moment in time, but we have to do what we have to do to protect ourselfs and we cannot be expected to save others if they won't help themselfs

I lost one other friend (online friend) as well but I won't go into that here
I'm sorry to hear that! Good for you that you put up a boundaries and stick by them!