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This resonates so much with me!

I finally ended a toxic friendship with a life long frenemy several months ago when it go so ridiculously toxic and she had no respect for me or boundaries. I suppose I attracted her in the first place because I am pretty quirky myself and gravitate to problematic people rather than more normal people due to something within me.

I had a bf who said he would be dead by the age of 21 because he grew up on the tough streets, which was a total joke because he was a rich, suburban kid. P.s. he didn’t die. If your friend is threatening death that’s a huge red flag. Suggest she get counseling. It’s not your problem.

Ending the toxic relationships are very difficult. They are friends. They are family. We do miss their good qualities and have had great times. We don’t have many, if any, other friends and have to find new, quality ones.