I think, I made it crystal clear on this thread that I disapprove of what your T did and consider what she did unethical. When I say "dumped", I am not referring to regular relationships break ups. I think, you can be "dumped" by a therapist as well. I was. The way my first therapy ended totally felt like the therapist "dumped" me in the similar uncaring way, which was actually much worse than your case. But I was taking my point outside of therapy as well. There were situations in my life that felt as devastating as being "dumped" by my therapist. I mean, many times we find ourselves in circumstances that are cruel and unfair. In that sense, it might be helpful to look at all of them from a perspective of how we make sense of what happened and what kind of lessons we can learn from it.

I know that. My point had nothing to do with that.

I didn't say you should force it. I suggested to look at what happened from a different perspective.

That's exactly what my question was about. If you knew that she cares, do you believe this would help you to accept what happened, to get closure and to move on with your life?

When you say "different" and "easier", how different would it be? What exactly would be different then? Would it get processed sooner? And, generally speaking, do you want eventually to get to a place where you would not miss her any more, where you'd be free of any emotional attachment to her? I am NOT saying you should push yourself to that place. I know perfectly well that feelings cannot be eliminated at will and that it takes however long it takes to process them. I am just asking if you WANT to be able to get to that place, the place of emotional independence eventually?