What amazes me is the amount of people who try and read other people's minds and assume they don't mean what they say. All my life I've kept that saying that assumption makes an *** out of u and me. All this mind reading must really cause an awful lot of anxiety. Never believing what an other person says or that they don't mean what they say must be exhausting. If someone tells me to help myself I believe them and will. Of course as one person pointed out I'll be nice about it and not eat the last cookie or peice of bread nor take the expensive stuff, plus I'll wash up after myself.