I really need some support. My husband just informed me that he bought tickets for concerts two days in a row. This is a group that I don't particularly care for, so about twice a year he goes with a buddy. But never two days in a row.

He mentioned something in April, but nothing about two days in a row. I'm so hurt right now that I want to do something, like spending a lot of money on something. Any time I talk about doing something he says we're too poor. He thinks this is funny. But it has an impact. I try to be frugal. I don't really need a lot. But this just feels so much like a betrayal.

I'm not in an emotional place to talk to him right now. He'll just get angry. Talking will come later. I just need to connect with what I'm feeling and I'm feeling like crying.