FuzzyBear, Something I've learned this year about assumptions: when you assUme anything about me, you make an *** out of U and me. The first time I heard this, I decided to keep that thought for ammunition for all those who make incorrect assumptions about me. It does help, especially when I get to explain it to one who assumes incorrectly.

Keep searching for a therapist you trust. Like anything, there are good ones and bad ones.