i agree too.

if she could not handle you simply driving by her home and having the mature therapy discussion to help you to understand and work through why you did it, then i doubt she was going to be able to handle any difficult feelings you may have bought to therapy in the future, like anger and possibly even anger towards her one day. that sets up for an unsafe therapeutic dynamic if you are having to censor your feelings and thoughts out of fear of offending your T or worrying that you will be terminated because of it. i reckon she doesn't have skin thick enough for this business and she is doing her clients a great disservice because of it.