I have a 22 & a 21 year old. I was diagnosed at 43yrs of age. If I’d known in my early 20’s that I would have Bipolar one day, I would’ve never had children.
That being said, given that I don’t live in a hypothetical world, it is what it is.
I love my children. I wouldn’t change anything although I do feel some guilt at some of the mental fragilities they’ve inherited.