My H and I both live with BPII. We'd always preferred to adopt and/or to have foster children. We had a girl for 10 years as a "foster." She was very traumatized and more, so we'd had our hands full.
She has been reunited with her family of origin, which was one of her major goals. We have supported this goal and even had her biological mother over to our home repeatedly to help facilitate a reunion with her family.
She'd tried our patience and gave us a few near heart attacks! lol! We'd loved her just as she was!
I would not have my own children. I have several difficult medical conditions and would not want a child to suffer, too.
Best wises with children!

WC