This is new to me, I made sure the T I chose was patient, kind, knowledgeable, etc., and I really needed the kindness and the empathy. But now that I'm getting really attached, and transference is happening all over the place, I want my T to hurt me now... Is this normal? Sometimes I wish my T would yell at me or hit me or lose his patience and snap that I'm being a baby or something, because that feels so much more familiar than having to try to interpret his kindness session after session. Do I need to talk about this with him?