My therapist used to get mad at me and yell at me at times. I interpreted his yelling and anger as him caring about me. Possibly because it felt familiar. But he never hurt me. In fact, he went to great lengths not to hurt me.

I couldn't stand a therapist who never yelled at me. But I don't want them to actually hurt me either. That's why my therapist was perfect for me, and I'm never going to find another one as great as him.

You should definitely talk to your therapist about it.