He called her the other day on my behalf to try to make peace and that’s what she told him. She also lied to him that I told her “F you and don’t ever call me again.” That never happened. She always lies and twists it.

I regret putting my h up to calling her. That was wrong of me. He didn’t take it upon himself to step in ever. His lack of defense of me really hurts me deeply but that’s not who he is.

It got back to me from my other sister that it was discussed with Mom that I was traumatized from her screaming at me to eat and making me cry hysterically at the dinner table. Mom supposedly replied she had no choice but to scream as I wouldn’t eat.

That’s why she forbids me to talk about anything from the past. She doesn’t want to own up to being abusive.