My pdoc has recently been suggesting I address this "ambivalence" by making a commitment to deciding what I enjoy as well as committing to pursuing some of the activities/events I do enjoy. She feels doing this will help me to commit to moving ahead in life. (I feel stuck in ambivalence right now.)
Me? I don't know the answer(s), yet I feel BirdDancer is onto something important!
Thank you for being you!

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