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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
I sometimes wonder if we have trouble letting go of unhealthy relationships because, for some odd reason, we were stimulated by the drama and intensity of those relationships. Is that sort of like addiction? It feeds our unhealthiest impulses and coping mechanisms?
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I would agree with you except that I'm not usually attracted to drama. And I have a very close relationship with current T, so I don't need ex-T to be my T. I also have since stopped my worst coping mechanism (SH). I haven't done it also in 3.5 years.