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Old Oct 28, 2018, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I think you need to grieve as if it were a death or the end of a romantic relationship. That's how I approached letting go of ex-MC, and current T agreed that I was grieving a personal loss.
You're right. But I don't really know how to grieve a death. When I was 8, I had 10 people who were close to me die. I remember I cried for the first couple, but after that I didn't even react. Since then, I've mostly lost people to abandonment. The only deaths I've had to deal with were my dogs, people in the media, and acquaintances/friend of a friend. And it's hard to honor her memory when there was so much pain.

How did you grieve? How have you been doing with the loss of your mc?
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