I'm sorry I can't be of help with this personally. However I noticed no one had yet replied to your post. So I thought I would. Hopefully there will be other members who will yet have some helpful suggestions they can share. In the meantime, here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that hopefully may be of some help:
Understanding the Effects of Trauma: Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) – Psych Central
Why Do Flashbacks Happen? | After Trauma
Coping with Flashbacks – Psych Central
What is a Trigger? – Psych Central
What Triggers You? – Psych Central