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Originally Posted by Chez3
I forgot to mention this earlier, but I think that he's trying to stop feeling altogether. I think he's trying to get rid of us because we feel strong emotions that he can't really handle, and he's just trying to become a psychopath.
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Well, the good news is you can't just "become" a psychopath. You either have it in you to feel empathy or you don't. You can "pretend" to be the opposite for a while, but if isn't your true nature to be that way then you just... won't be.
Honestly, what I read most through your words is that he needs a break. One particular one of us launches head first into denial or everything when things get beyond her comfort zone. She NEEDS to do believe nothing happened when it all gets too much for her.
Maybe it would help Chez for you all to back off a bit, not overwhelm him with strong emotions and the such like. Sounds like he needs some TLC to be honest. Or just a break.