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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway
But people who know what's best for others are never in a vulnerable state (or, to be more accurate, they deny their vulnerabilities), or they'd tell you they hit the rock bottom many times, but that they were always able to pull their **** together, pick themselves up and dust themselves off because they are so self-sufficient, so mature and responsible, so awesome, so strong and independent. And, if you don't measure up to their standards you are just a whiny little baby who refuses to take responsibility for your own life and they always make sure that you know that.
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I will not respond to any "rebuttals" to this.
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I think that your post is better suited as a self guide to examining its internally inconsistent content, because the only person that seems to have an agenda here, to condescend to tell others how to post here to invisible rules you have implemented and judged, is you. You don't have any better idea of what's supportive than anybody else, and I really don't think it's necessary to bully and denigrate others just because you disagree with their approach to saying what they think. Most of all, I don't think it is healthy to attempt to silence others and pretend it's for somebody else's good. I had a childhood full of that and I'm not doing it again.