am I alone in finding that when someone says something like

Yzy .. but .. Cba

It might help some

But

It usually doesn’t help me

This isn’t intended to be adversarial or hurtful to anyone, it’s just my feeling. And it’s not universally applicable.

Hugs to all

Also re another post (of mine) I’d prefer it if my friends thought of Observe Describe Participate (or any other tool which might help with feeling rejected by me etc when I’m not being rejecting. And in fact I am looking forward to speaking to them again but then I’m blocked because I don’t reply soon enough? Again this is not intended to be adversarial or hurtful to anyone. It’s kind of something I personally learnt “the hard way” as I learnt so many “life lessons”

Love to all


(Not about anyone here)