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Originally Posted by karissa0
Another thing that happened a couple days ago was we became intimate and the next day I told him I felt bad because I don’t like to do stuff like that with people I’m not dating and he said he felt guilty but didn’t wanna say no yet he initiated it... he apologized and said he feels terrible but this was kind of the final straw for me this time. I had the idea in mind he wanted to get back together while he was engaged in this with me but I am aware he has many many issues right now. I feel like this incident ruined any possibility of a friendship which is why I blocked him and cut off contact for right now. I feel bad as well that I should have known due to the state he’s in I shouldn’t have gone along with it and I should have known better. It’s just very stressful and clearly we BOTH got caught up in the moment. Before I cut off contact he told me that he won’t act like that again and he doesn’t know when he will be ready for a relationship but he cares for me a lot and doesn’t want to hurt me. I’m so lost about this situation and dunno what the right thing is to do
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Since he's attempted or was hospitalized, he is very unstable and will rope you into his state of disarray and confusion. He said he cares for you, but that he cannot be in a relationship. And it IS for the best that you're not involved with him. I would say it's probably best to just let go right now and tell him it's better if you are away from one another so he can heal and get better. Being friends may be too hard when you're romantically interested. That's my two cents.