It has happened a couple of times in the past with T. For the most part would say something like "maybe. .". Once though I was upset about all the people around me who had mothers there to babysit, spend time with etc but they complained about their parents or even chose to not have contact. I was upset because I would never have the opportunity since my mom was dead.

T wzpalined that not everybody had healthy moms so often not having contact was for their own well being rather than living with a toxic relationship. I was NOT buying it and was upset.

Only later did I realize that T did not have a relationship with her toxic mom. Her mom was emotionally abusive