I admit I am bothered by this and just yesterday such an incident really bothered and shook me. My relationship is pretty solid but I admit I have problems with all the female friends my boyfriend has. Yesterday he ditched lunch at home with me for one with a former co-worker - a woman and I admit that threw me into some depression. I felt really cruddy. Granted she needed some emotional support but to me that made it all the worse that he would be so close to another woman. I have male acquaintances too but never in a million years would I go alone to a lunch or dinner with a man. It just doesn't seem right to me.