I’m not exactly sure what the right answer is for this. I don’t want to minimize your feelings because I do know it hurts when your kids leave you out of things. But I do wonder if this is a common thing these days. People aren’t as “formal” about relationships anymore. Communication is becoming more and more superficial I think. I sometimes wonder if people value friendships and relationships in the same way. Our culture has shifted quite a bit in the past decade or so and I don’t always get where people are coming from anymore. Makes me feel old! Sorry for the rambling... I just wonder if this behavior from your kids is more about them than it really is about you. I keep myself very busy with my own things... My grown kids don’t tell me everything... and I don’t share everything going on in my life with them either. (((Big Hug))) to you. [emoji3590]