I suggest that thought be given to how she will respond.

1. What is it about her, or about there situation, that makes you tend to think that she will reject your proposal and continue to stay away from you?

2. What is it about her, or about there situation, that make you tend to think that she will reject your proposal but agree to see you again?

3. What is it about her, or about the situation, that tends to make you think that she will accept your proposal?