I'm doing great! I even joined 2 meet up groups, though I haven't attended yet. It feels like I have more time in a day. Last night I was drawing, which I haven't done in a very long time. It's said to be good to start doing things that fell away, and I agree. Not *just* watching dvds every night. I'm going to another concert in a week and a half, and really looking forward to that. Oh! I also feel like my finances are more in control. That really struck me -- it's 100% up to me where it goes! (Imagine that! My money is really mine!)

I just feel so much lighter. No more wondering what the next drama will he, no more coercion, no more feeling like a doormat. Boundaries were SO hard! It seemed any way I'd want to enforce something, it'd have a bad repercussion for me. Drove me up a wall. I read a book about self-care in this context (coming out of abusive situation). I'm also making a list of all the things that were bad so I don't forget. Never forget. Sweet talk won't cut it. (He somehow holds out hope that this is temporary. (!))

So yeah, good.