I think 'snowflake' is something alt right followers tend to call people on the left, and SJWs are 'social justice warriors' who are left wing too. It's American terms and we're not even in the US. 'Snowflake' I think refers to our 'delicate' easily offended nature apparently. He says I am too sensitive but I would rather be like that than the way he is. He spends his time deliberately trying to offend me, so I suppose if I reacted with indifference that would help a lot more.

SJWs tend to be more concerned with identity politics, which is why I don't really see myself as such, I'm more of an old school socialist, which doesn't go down well with a lot of people, but I don't spend all my time trying to wind him up about his beliefs. He did say I should give as good as I get, but I'm not like that and don't see the point in engaging in his game of pointless insults. But he has said that. If he is trying to toughen me up though he has a funny way of doing it and it just isn't me.