LT: People REALLY don't think about you/your daughter like you worry. I work with 2 year olds, and have been around kids all my life. If one didn't answer me, or acted "different," (there really is no different with children), I wouldn't think a thing of it. Kids are weird, particular.

Also, a T who had just come in the night before (i was inpatient), asked us how long we thought about him from then until now. I thought to myself "umm, about 2 seconds,' and everyone's answers were in the seconds. Most people are concerned about themselves, and not so much about others. Its just a fact of life.