My SIL wants us to drive up to my MIL birthday. Yeah tells us now, really? I mean we don't make a lot. We kinda need more of a heads up. We're suppose to be up there on the 17th a two day drive so we need to leave around the 14th. In a rented car? because you know our cars are broken and we don't have the money to fix them. She texted this in a group text with their brother that my husband hasn't talked in 5+ years. My son has school too. What about that? I'm so frustrated.