LT

Velcro and your T are very right. Think about how often you truly think about people you see in passing, like if they do something weird or whatever? Probably gonna be the same for them. Most people look at their phones nowadays more than they do other people

LT: People REALLY don't think about you/your daughter like you worry. I work with 2 year olds, and have been around kids all my life. If one didn't answer me, or acted "different," (there really is no different with children), I wouldn't think a thing of it. Kids are weird, particular.

Also, a T who had just come in the night before (i was inpatient), asked us how long we thought about him from then until now. I thought to myself "umm, about 2 seconds,' and everyone's answers were in the seconds. Most people are concerned about themselves, and not so much about others. Its just a fact of life.