Dear T,
I can definitely feel your caring now-thanks for those replies. I wish I didn’t doubt you so much. I also wish you were more careful in some of what you say to me. This is twice now recently where you’ve said you suspected something you said would negatively affect me. Could you maybe think of that *before* you say it instead of after? And then...just don’t say it? Or fully explain it at the time?
Love you anyway,
LT