I have a couple of questions.

"Too sensitive" for what?
"Overly dramatic" according to whom?
"Selfish" according to who?
"Get over it" for whom?

You say certain aspects of it run through your head, and you get emotionally upset if you think about it. It obviously affects you.

I wonder where this judgement about your experiences not being "_________ enough" to make you "eligible" to have feelings about it all comes from...