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Originally Posted by Zararose
It hurts me now more than it did then. Back then I was used to it. I do try and love myself everyday but it's a battle. I have seen a therapist but h avent talked to them in depth about my previous relationship. I probably shoudl talk to someone because the more I think about it the more I realise what an impact it's had on me
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Yes, I can relate to this very much. Sometimes words don't sink in or sting until much later.... it can take time but then it haunts you. I know this feeling very well after I had an abusive ex tell me he loved his other ex more than me, after I had taken great care of him and supported him for four months financially. OUCH. Who the hell says such a thing? It's practically demonic.
So, my point is: you have to wonder: what kind of MONSTER says such an inhuman thing to another human being. That's how you have to view what your ex said to you. That was inhuman..... not what a loving partner says to someone. He was not loving.. that is the opposite of love.
Please view him as a monster..... and yes, I think it would be great to talk all of this over with your therapist. ((((Hugs))))