The best way to defeat jealousy is to be with someone who makes your relationship all about you. Now before you the k this is a selfish act, keep in mind I dont mean he cant have any female friends. What he cant have is v close relationships with women outside of your circle. If you have friends in common for example than fine. Receiving texts are ok, however if they are from random women you dont know or are not friends with, then you are being played.

Dont allow yourself to be played. Your intimate relationship should be all about you and only you. If you ever feel like you are competing with other women, break it off, it won't change. If your man is bold enough to be entertaining with other women in your company ( texting etc) , you are not his focus or priority. YOUand only YOU created boundaries in your intimate relationships, if those boundaries are not making you happy, then leave, There are plenty of men out there looking for their queen, dont settle on being a sidekick or princess. Queen or nothing lol , I promise you you won't regret wanting and settling for nothing less. There isnt room in your Intimate relationship for 3 people, take back your power and Find a man who has the same morals and values you do.