Perna - Thanks. Yes, I can survive. It's more like he broke a pact that I thought we'd worked out with the help of the marriage counselor. If he'd told me he was thinking about doing that, it would have been different. Now I'm left feeling like he doesn't care about the marriage. And I'm full of ideas of getting back at him because he hurt me. Eventually we'll talk about it. But I have to let a day or two pass because he's feeling self righteous and can't hear me.