MAry Alice,
When I read this I can't help but think....did you cancel that appt because you don't want to go or was it to test your T? Maybe he is thinking that he isn't gonna force you to come. If you want his help then you need to do your part which includes making and keeping your appt. I am sure it's not because he doesn't care but maybe he doesn't have the time to phone you and everyone else whenever they cancel. I really think he is giving you your space and allowing you to make your decision.
I am really glad you went to that appt. and I hope you will make the choice to call and reschedule that appt. You know he cares whether you want to believe him right now or not.
Hugs,
Heidu

"Rabbit's clever," said Pooh thoughtfully.
"Yes," said Piglet, "Rabbit's clever."
"And he has a Brain."
"Yes," said Piglet, "Rabbit has a Brain."
There was a long silence.
"I suppose," said Pooh, "that that's why he never understands anything."