
Nov 04, 2018, 07:09 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 10,789
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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
This morning she called me saying she lost her wallet and was so mad she threw her keys and broke the clicker for her car and bent the key for her car. She called me a little later telling me she still couldn't find it but "oh well", then I called her to check in on her and she got cut off by another phone call. I was getting ready for dinner when I saw her buzzing, ignored it, then saw she called four times. I called back and said, "Did you seriously call me 4 times in a row?" and she said, "You know what, I can't deal with your attitude" and hung up on me. She texted me saying, "You shouldn't have given me attitude, if you didn't want to answer you should have ignored my calls" and I replied with "I wasn't giving you attitude, I have phobias when it comes to overcalling/overtexting" and she replied with "We talk all the time, get over it" and I said, "I'll give you some space so you can cool down" and she replied, "It's okay, I'm cool, no reason to be upset."
I left it at that.
What the heck? She's not normally like that. She was only like that once around me, she was having some party and things weren't going her way and she was snippy with everyone, but she's never been so mean to me like that before. It was so weird. I am getting tired of daily phone calls, it tends to be one sided, but after that I don't think I have the guts to tell her to back off on the phone calls.
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It sound like she is not a good friend for you. You put up some boundaries and we is crossing the boundaries. Have someone else explain that she need to reconsider how she talk to you on the phone and how often she calls and if she can't respect rose boundaries block all of her communications. Maybe she doesn't realize that this is harrassment.
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