Dearest Fuzzy;
Huh. This sort of pronouncement from anyone makes me furious. Cause just who are they,and what do they know, of anything at all -- let alone what conditions & situations you may be dealing with on any given day? What exactly makes them an authority? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Because I am such a beeech sometimes, I tend to do the "what's-it-to-ya" thing, followed by "Gee sorry about your inconvenience".

Sounds like whoever is making these pronouncements could use a little sensitivity training their- own-self, as we say in the South. Jeesch.
IOW: Phooey on their opinions!
Hugs,
Chyia, so over all these people with "opinions"