He can be considerate and seem to enjoy my company. He can also be rude, hostile. One morning I didn't drive him to the train station because he was so rude. Then he apologized, but it will happen again. Whenever he is not feeling good he takes it out on me. Then this morning I woke up at 4am and he was still awake. I just find that so irresponsible so I raised my voice at him and don't feel good about it. I feel trapped into a no win situation. He complains to me about having to pick up his own dirty clothes once a week so I can wash them. He thought my cleaning lady should do that. There's a woman who helps me once a week or so with vacuuming and dusting, the bathrooms, and tidying up but I do cooking and laundry. I told him this is not a hotel and I'm not going to ask her to pick up his clothes. That's when he blurted out that I was paying her to be my friend rather than cleaning.

I never know which person is going to show up when I am interacting with him especially in the morning.